This goes out to the fellas/sistahs who, like myself, are seriously searching for a lifetime mate. Unfortunately, our society has been overloaded with beautiful women/men with extra baggage. What I mean by that is, the choice of male/female companionship has been comprimised by the sudden influx of single, beautiful men/women with children. The ages of these individuals varies. The singles out there, without child, are scarce. I don't know about you guys, but I do not want to comprimise my need for companionship, to get involved with some other "daddys-mommys-child" father/mother. You see it all equals extra baggage. Most single parents will emphasis at the onset of there relationship that they are not searching for a man/woman to assist them with caring for their child; but as the relationship deepens, you can bet your bottom dollar, that the child gets factored in. It is impossible to have feelings for the adult without having any for the the child. This blog is no disrespect for the single parents out there. I want to give my bro/sis, the heads up. The dating game is getting complicated. You have to stay on the top of your game, whatever it may be. Practicing safe sex (Say No!, A little head here and there, or use of a condom) is one way. Completing whatever your goal is in life is another. If anyone want to add to this, please feel free to do so.